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I put the hint to him three times over 5 years and I left it up to him. I am extrememly fit, active, and my friends all say that I am a really good man. You have an opportunity to consciously choose the type of person you want to be with, and how you want to spend the second — and BEST — part of your life!

That route is not for me. From what I have found with the men in my group 40 and below is they really just want to have a conversation where there is no drama and judging. You might just run into someone who gets you and has the same interests.

Dating in your 50’s – Easy for Men… Not so much for Women!

For those of you in your 40s or 50s who are recently divorced, widowed, or just eager to re-partner, dating again can be daunting. You may want to think and act like a 25-year-old, but your seasoning tells another tale and may actually improve the chances for success. The truth is that dating does change when you get older…and, in many ways, for the better. The paradox is that your maturity offers you many advantages over the youthful daters. There is no ticking of the biological clock. Men and women in their 40s and 50s are generally more self-assured. They know what they want out of a relationship, what they are looking for in a mate and are not afraid to ask for it. Your identity is more clearly defined. You are, therefore, more likely to depend on yourself, not your partner, to solve your own dilemmas. You have learned from your previous relationship experiences. You can take inventory of what time has taught you so that you do not fall into old traps. Knowing yourself better and being able to size up others more skillfully gives you a big advantage. You likely have greater financial freedom to enjoy fancy dinners and getaways. The days of scraping together enough money for a movie are over! Romance is more enjoyable. You are more sexually confident and liberated than you were in your youth. You have figured out what is important. Physical appearance, the type of car one drives and other status symbols take a back seat to more important personal attributes. You have gained perspective. Not every aspect of your romantic life feels critical. Your personal power is solid and secure. You have won and you have lost. You have made friends and let them go when they were not supportive. However, in some respects dating in your 40s and 50s is quite similar to dating in your 20s and 30s. The following are some common sense dating principles that apply across the generations. Profit from your past mistakes. Know what baggage to check at the door. History has a way of repeating itself unless you mindfully replace your old dependencies and fears with new patterns of behavior. Be proactive in creating opportunities. Seek out as many opportunities as possible. Recognize the power you have to be successful in your dating pursuits and use it. Even if you are , be kind and respectful to people who show an interest in you. Try not to focus heavily on the negatives. Not everything your date says or does will sit well with you. Try to see your potential partner as a whole person, recognizing the things you find endearing as well as the ones you see as negative. Silence is not always safe. Take ownership of what is yours and communicate it honestly and directly. Moments will arise when your judgment about your partner will be put to the test. Like you, your partner is imperfect and deserves the benefit of the doubt. Those of you in your 40s and 50s are in a wonderful period of your lives. You are beyond the confusion of your 20s and 30s and have clarified many of your major life values. Your priorities are in order and you know the benefits of being real. What do you like about dating as you get older? In addition, she is certified as a psychoanalyst and has extensive training in the following areas: addiction counseling, grief counseling, collaborative practice and mediation. For more information, please visit.

Seek out as many opportunities as possible. I have two single male friends in their mid to late 50s who are physically fit and good-looking to the ladies. Your post has certainly been enlightening, along with those of several other men here. It is brutal out there dating. I treasure what can truly be between a man and a woman if they both act unselfishly out of kindness and compassion. I am a fun loving man, jovial, lovely and passionate. I would never date a woman my age 50 — why would I? I think some men like to date much younger women to boost their ego. He was more to me than just a boyfriend.